Sharanagati: Dadhichi's Bones and the Final Surrender
The gift that was never asked for
The gods arrive in single file at the door of the sage Dadhichi and ask him to give his bones. The asura Vritra cannot be killed by any ordinary weapon. Only a weapon made from the bones of a sage who has dissolved his ego completely will work. Dadhichi agrees. This lesson reads that agreement as the Shiva Purana's final teaching on surrender.
The Gods at the Door
On the banks of the Saraswati river, near a thatched hermitage hidden in a grove of palasha trees, sometime in the early Puranic period, an old sage in bark cloth heard footsteps at his door. The sage was Dadhichi, son of the rishi Atharvan, husband of Suvarcha, and one of the few remaining Vedic seers who had renounced even the use of fire for cooking. His diet was forest fruit, his bath was the river, and his daily practice was the silent recitation of the Atharva mantras his father had taught him.

The footsteps were not those of a single visitor. The Shiva Purana, in the Rudra Samhita, records that the entire pantheon of devas had walked single file to his door. Indra was at the front, his face hollow. Behind him stood Agni, Vayu, Varuna, the Adityas, the Maruts, the Vasus. They had all lost their kingdom. The asura Vritra, who had grown so powerful on the strength of a boon that he had swallowed the cosmic waters and dried up the rivers, could not be killed. Brahma, consulted in despair, had given the gods one and only one prescription. The weapon that could end Vritra would have to be forged from the bones of a sage who had given his body away while still alive, voluntarily, without coercion, without negotiation.
The gods had walked the length of the subcontinent. Every hermitage in Bharata. Every sage refused. Some refused with elaborate justifications, some with anger, some by simply not answering the door. By the time they arrived at Dadhichi's hut on the Saraswati, they had been walking for years. Indra knelt at the threshold. He could not bring himself to ask.